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What Is Hookup Online Guide? 

Hookup Online Guide is a resource built to help you hookup more effectively on quality dating sites. After reading through this Guide, we expect you to understand:

>Which hookup sites offer the most booty call potential
>>How to build a great online hookup profile
>>>How to properly communicate with a woman while still flirting on a booty call site
>>>>What to have ready before your first meting with a woman you are going to meet
>>>>>How to maximize your chances of hooking up on your first meeting

Step 1 – Review & Pick

Step 1 – Review & Pick

Picking a good hookup site is probably the most important first step. Throughout your fling adventures, you’ll notice that men outnumber women on every site you’ll be working with. Due to this ratio issue, women constantly get messaged by numerous guys, allowing them to weed out the undesirables quickly and ruthlessly. It’s therefore important to pick a fling site where the ratio works in your favor. We’ve done some of the footwork for you, but you can obviously pick any site that comes highly recommended by any close friend.

You’ll find both free and pay booty call sites. The most effective ones are the pay sites. Free sites have the unfortunate side effect of attracting a lot of riffraff. There are a lot of inactive profiles, fake profiles (guys posing as girls), etc… Pay sites such as AshleyMadison.com keep these time-wasting people at bay by showing only active profiles search in results and requiring paid membership for communication privileges. This greatly reduces fake or inaccurate profiles, as a credit card is required to use the service.

You should understand that expediting your time-to-hookup is worth a few dollars a month. There’s value in not having to deal with mind games people play in the regular online dating world (i.e.: I want to fuck you, but if I do now, I’ll feel like a slut, etc…).

So read our reviews and choose a dating service wisely. For best results we recommend signing up for 2 or 3 services as this doubles /triples/ your chances for successful flirt.

Step 2 – Create a GREAT Profile

Step 2 – Create a GREAT Profile

No, we’re not posting profile examples because our recommended sites would feature all of you using the same profile information. Rather, we wanted to explain a few profile building rules to follow rigorously.

Rule #1 – Most Important Decision Point is Your Picture
As in day-to-day social situations, you have no influence over her decision to choose you. The decision to hookup will always be hers, and hers alone. However, you do have power to put your best foot forward when she ‘scans’ your profile. We can’t stress enough the importance of your profile picture, and any other pictures you post. Her initial decision on whether or not to reply to your first advances is entirely dependent on how good you look in your profile picture, followed on how interesting your remaining pictures are.

The profile picture you choose should not be just of your face. Out of the 100 women we interviewed, 82 said that they eliminate guys that put up pictures of their face only. And they don’t even consider a profile that doesn’t have a picture. They do this because they are screening guys for the purpose of sleeping with them. If you don’t show an indication of body type, you’re out.

To maximize your chances of passing this initial picture screening, you need to post a quality picture, clearly showing your upper body and face. You should be smiling and relaxed. Picture quality is important, so swap your crappy mobile phone camera for a real digital camera and ask a friend to help.

Most hookup sites let you post additional pictures of yourself. In general, you should focus on posting pictures of yourself in fun situations. We’ve found that action shots work best. We regularly used action shots in all of our profiles. Playing sports (for us: soccer action shot) or daring activities (for us: skydiving and another one of us holding a freakin’ huge Boa) help in establishing yourself as a fun, spontaneous and daring individual, pushing you to the top of the list of desirable people she’ll consider for a booty call. It also goes without saying that no self-respecting woman will have a one night stand with someone she doesn’t find physically attractive. Keep your body fit and your mind fitter.

Rule #2 – Your Profile is About Her
One common mistake guys make is to offer up too much information in their profile. Out of the 100 women we surveyed, a whooping 85% picked these as the top things they look for in a man when assessing hookup potential:
- Looks: Where the face, biceps and the upper-body build mattered most.
- Conversational Confidence: When speaking to her, you were playful and avoided standard questions regarding work and such.
- Humor: You made her laugh a few times.
- Profile Mystery: She could tell you were honest, but that you were holding back something she wants to know.

Your profile is not about who you are. It’s about whom she wants you to be. To that effect, you need to craft your profile with information that stimulates her mind and pegs you as an exciting person who she would enjoy knowing.

Step 3 – Contact and Flirt

Step 3 – Contact and Flirt

Yes, you will have to work numbers to get results. This is true in the regular online dating world as well as the fling dating world. Yes, this is a pain in the ass. The advantage of casting your net on hookup sites (especially the pay ones) is that you’re not catching fish that don’t exist. So while you may not have been successful sending 50 intro messages on plentyoffish, you’ll get more replies on booty call sites, because your audience is focused.

There are a few guidelines to follow when contacting women on hookup sites. We like to refer to this as the ‘minimum sentence guideline’. The optimal amount of (proper and full) sentences in any given initial message to a new prospect is 3 to 5. They should be short, funny and SPECIFIC to one of her pictures. If you’re the guy that sends the same message each time you see a picture of a woman you like, you need to shift your effort a little. Think about it – can you tell that the email you got is SPAM when you see ‘En1arge U RRR PEN1$’?

Anyone can tell a generic message from a genuine one. Unfortunately, women get so many messages that you need to optimize yours. This means being specific AND meaningful at the same time. What a stretch!

You need to find 3 to 4 sentences that will:
- FIRST … Make her smirk
- THEN … Make her smile
- AND / OR … Make her bite her lower lip
- FINALLY … Make her act on that impulse to reply to you. A call to action.

The entire purpose of the steps above is to lure this girl to click on your profile picture, which should follow our picture posting guidelines. That picture is your main anchor to getting her more interested in you. If you have a good pic and it looks fairly good, you’re well on your way to booty call land.

In general, avoid writing long-winded emails. In the case of your initial contact with a woman, less is more. Writing anything above 5 short sentences will guarantee no reply back. Sending multiple mails to the same girl is also a big no-no. If you don’t get a reply to your initial contact, jut let it go and move on. If she was interested, she would have replied back.

Once she replies back to you, you need to move her into the conversation stage. Your entire goal here should be to get her on some type of real-time communication method. This is VERY important. Email conversations have a way of getting very boring after awhile and the moment she feels bored, you’ve lost her. Email messages aren’t interactive. The quicker you get her on IM / audio chat / video chat, the better your chances of success.

Your conversations should be light and fun. Learn to integrate some basic humour into your discussions. Poking fun at her is acceptable; being a dickhead isn’t.

In general, most women need about 2 to 3 hours of talking / chatting before agreeing to meet you. We saw that the women we met through AshleyMadison.com take less, because they are time-constrained by family / work obligations.

Having a conversation today is not what it was years ago. There are new tools that you can use to your advantage. We generally have a few things ready when we start talking to a girl. We have good pictures we can send her, which were not posted on the hookup site. We also keep a few funny / cute youtube links handy. The ones that consistently get the best responses are the ones that show little puppies / kittens doing cute things. No surprise there.

So – keep it light and fun, and after a little while setup the initial date.

Step 4 – Meet & Charm

Step 4 – Meet & Charm

I want you to repeat after me: The Olive Garden is NOT the right place for a first encounter. We can’t beat charm and charisma into you, but you can avoid the Olive Garden.

When proposing a venue for the first date, make sure it’s not at a restaurant. Also make sure it’s not in the suburbs. Women will tend to shy away from dinner, because it’s a multi-hour long commitment. If they happen not to like who they’re with, they are stuck there for countless boring hours. Your best bet is to meet her at a casual place where you can talk and where the time commitment is low for both of you.

We take our women to a lounge, and we ALWAYS set up the time for the date between 7:00 PM and 8:00 PM. We do this because at that time, the lounge is fairly empty, the music isn’t too loud and the couches are comfortable. This gives you a good level of privacy, you can use your best weapon on her (your sly words) and you can get her to relax on a comfy couch instead of a stiff chair. Also, make sure that the place has food to nibble on, in case she’s hungry.

One trick we repeatedly used was to show up at the lounge ½ an hour early, and talk to the waitress. Give her 40$ in-hand and tell her at about ½ an hour into the date, she should come to both of you with a fruity-tasting girly-shot and say this specifically: “This one’s on the house, Mr. XYZ”.

Don’t get drunk unless she leads the way. Don’t offer her any hard liquor unless she asks for it or it’s ‘on the house’. Do ask her if she wants a little something to eat in case she’s hungry. Do ask how her day went and what was good / bad about it.

Again, you’ll need about 2 to 3 more face-to-face hours to go the full Monty with her. So you need to have INTERESTING CONVERSATION MATERIAL to talk to her about. Light & funny stories work well. Avoid the boring stuff such as work or her major unless she asks first. Even then, transition out of work talk into discussing life. And we can’t stress this enough: MAKE HER LAUGH, MAKE HER LAUGH AND MAKE HER LAUGH.

Now, it’s time to seal the deal.

Step 5 – Seal the Deal

Step 5 – Seal the Deal

The beauty of meeting women through fling sites is that there are only two possible outcomes to your date. She’ll either leave mid-date, or you’ll get laid. If you’re into hour #2 at the lounge, you’re golden.

When leaving, always ask ‘your place or mine’. We’ve seen that single women prefer to go to their place – it’s more comfortable for her; familiar ground. If you’re making out with her in the cab (which you should be), you can move to the bedroom as soon as you’re at her place. If you’re not, pour a drink for both of you and proceed to a ½ make out session. Kiss her a lot.

There’s one exception to the above paragraph. If you’re on a date and she’s married, either have a hotel room on reservation or volunteer your place.

The last piece of advice we have for you is that you should make sure you get her number if you both enjoyed the sex, so you can provide repeats.

At this point, we feel that you’ve achieved your goal. Repeat this hookup process many times. Live happily ever after.